It's fine. I didn't feel that you were pressuring me. My issue with the one really long, plotty WIP is that it's essentially a sort of rewrite of OotP, and I don't want to start posting chapters and then have to go back and edit them to make them fit with the rest of the fic.
We didn't definitely didn't learn enough about them. Your Remus is fine. I don't actively read fics with him or the other Marauders really, so I can't comment much about him or the others.
No, I don't think Harry is completely capable of understanding the nature of Snape's regrets. I think he's closer to that by the end of DH. I ignore the epilogue of that one, because for me it makes no real sense to Harry and Ginny to be together.
I figured out I was asexual in college when someone was able to put a label on it and we could talk about it. I'm bi-romantic, so if I were in a relationship it would be without sex and it could be with a man, woman, or whoever. I've never wanted children, so that's never been an issue (and I'm also not overly fond of kids in general). I've never been formally tested/diagnosed, but I'm very likely on the autism spectrum and that brings in a host of other related issues. Chief among them that I basically hate being touched and eye contact makes my skin crawl.
I've stayed with the Snarry side of the HP fandom since I got involved in it. I stayed with them on LJ and then moved to InsaneJournal and also on here. The fandom slowed down after DH was published and the bigger fests died off. People moving to tumblr also changed things. I know how things are with the Snarry fandom that I've always been a part of, but it's also different with newer authors. That's the issue with AO3 for Snarry fics, and with the HP fandom in general. It reminds me of what I'd read on ff.net way back when. Hell, I can almost tell what sort of fic I'm going to encounter based on the summary and the username, much as I shouldn't judge on usernames. That's also a reason why I'm snarry_fan7 on here (because that's what I've always been since LJ) and SolaScientia on AO3 and tumblr. That way I can post in other fandoms and not have people look askance at my username.
I don't mind explicit sex scenes at all, but I don't read het unless it's related to a specific pairing/fandom, and even then it isn't preferred. Het is basically a squick for me. The young kids can't differentiate between a squick and a trigger these days though.
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We didn't definitely didn't learn enough about them. Your Remus is fine. I don't actively read fics with him or the other Marauders really, so I can't comment much about him or the others.
No, I don't think Harry is completely capable of understanding the nature of Snape's regrets. I think he's closer to that by the end of DH. I ignore the epilogue of that one, because for me it makes no real sense to Harry and Ginny to be together.
I figured out I was asexual in college when someone was able to put a label on it and we could talk about it. I'm bi-romantic, so if I were in a relationship it would be without sex and it could be with a man, woman, or whoever. I've never wanted children, so that's never been an issue (and I'm also not overly fond of kids in general). I've never been formally tested/diagnosed, but I'm very likely on the autism spectrum and that brings in a host of other related issues. Chief among them that I basically hate being touched and eye contact makes my skin crawl.
I've stayed with the Snarry side of the HP fandom since I got involved in it. I stayed with them on LJ and then moved to InsaneJournal and also on here. The fandom slowed down after DH was published and the bigger fests died off. People moving to tumblr also changed things. I know how things are with the Snarry fandom that I've always been a part of, but it's also different with newer authors. That's the issue with AO3 for Snarry fics, and with the HP fandom in general. It reminds me of what I'd read on ff.net way back when. Hell, I can almost tell what sort of fic I'm going to encounter based on the summary and the username, much as I shouldn't judge on usernames. That's also a reason why I'm snarry_fan7 on here (because that's what I've always been since LJ) and SolaScientia on AO3 and tumblr. That way I can post in other fandoms and not have people look askance at my username.
I don't mind explicit sex scenes at all, but I don't read het unless it's related to a specific pairing/fandom, and even then it isn't preferred. Het is basically a squick for me. The young kids can't differentiate between a squick and a trigger these days though.